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Online back in Summer of 1998 or early 2000's (I can't remember, is to far back) - I set out to explore within kink. To see what worked and what didn't, all the In's, Out's, Up's, Down's, Red Flag's, everything in between, I explored it..

:::.. I, learned the easy way to do things, for a time it was fun - then it wasn't. So I, stepped further into it. I, learned the hard way, I took the curve balls that came along. Then, I made it my own, my hard lessons to learn within kink.

:::.. The rules change from online to offline - that in it's self is a given. It changed me on many different levels as I grew within kink. I stepped outta my comfort zone to try different things, some things I enjoyed, some things I didn't. I tried them just the same, it wasn't just one time, I tried them 10 - 20 times, if not more. Gotta tweak things see if they work for you, and if not, in the end, you just sorta move on, like I did in them times..

I, learned, I fought for things, I grew more, I did more in kink.

:::.. Once you go kink - you can never go back.. I stuck to that saying for alot of years, and its true.. I would never want to go back, because I enjoy my life. I'm also happier then I was, when I first started into kink. I was so shy, I looked at the ground loads, I didn't speak up or open my mind to different things. 24y's years later, I can now say I'm not shy anymore, I don't look at the ground anymore, I speak my mind on things. I'm just me..

:::.. Over the years I have helped, taught, mentored more than a few folks within the kink lifestyle. Online to offline, sometimes folks want help with things, and some folks do not, depending on what it is, It could be fun or not. It's a curve ball in alot of ways.

:::.. I have had Dominant's come to me in the passed, and ask whats it like to see from a submissives point of view. I, have also had submissives do the same - wanting to know what it's like from a Dominant's point of view - in turn I have told them try it, you may find out that you enjoy it. It's always better to explore then not. Just my view.


:::.. I have also had folks tell me, I know what I'm doing thanks, I don't need help..

Everyone is taught differently.. As am I..

For folks that read this, I hope you enjoy it.